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Some songs that I just love…

Superman - Five for fighthing

I cant stand to fly

Im not that naive
Im just out to find

The better part of me

Im more than a bird…Im more than a plane
More than some pretty face beside a train
Its not easy to be me

Wish that I could cry

Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie

About a home Ill never see

It may sound absurd

but dont be naive
Even heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed

but wont you concede
Even heroes have the right to dream
Its not easy to be me

Up, up and away…away from me
Its all right…you can all sleep sound tonight
Im not crazy…or anything…

I cant stand to fly

Im not that naive
Men werent meant to ride

With clouds between their knees

Im only a man in a silly red sheet
Digging for kryptonite on this one way street
Only a man in a funny red sheet
Looking for special things inside of me
Inside of me
Inside me
Yeah, inside me
Inside of me

Im only a man
In a funny red sheet
Im only a man
Looking for a dream

Im only a man
In a funny red sheet
And its not easy, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm…

To be~ Me~

征服

征服曲：袁惟仁詞：袁惟仁編：

終於你找到一個方式

分出了勝負輸贏的代價是彼此

粉身碎骨外表健康的你心裡

傷痕無數頑強的我是這場戰役的俘虜

就這樣被你征服切斷了所有退路我的心情是堅固我的決定是糊塗就這樣被你征服喝下你藏好的毒我的劇情已落幕我的愛恨已入土

終於我明白倆人要的是一個結束所有的辯解都讓對方以為是企圖放一把火燒掉你送我的禮物卻澆不熄我胸口灼熱的憤怒

你如果經過我的墳墓你可以雙手合十為我祝福

You Raise Me Up  - Josh Groban

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up: To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up: To more than I can be.

There is no life - no life without its hunger;
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly;
But when you come and I am filled with wonder,
Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up: To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up: To more than I can be.

无敌铁金钢 - 卢广仲

他很强壮你也一样
是无敌铁金刚
他很强壮你也一样
没有多余的脂肪

那我也要和你一样
真的很想穿上那盔甲
不论有多少困难让我通通吃掉
总有一天我会得到力量

无敌铁金刚无敌铁金刚
把坏人通通打到一旁
无敌铁金刚无敌铁金刚
射出了雷射光我就不会害怕
因为你就是那无敌铁金刚

他很强壮你也一样
是无敌铁金刚
他很强壮你也一样
没有多余的脂肪

那我也要和你一样
真的很想穿上那盔甲
不论有多少困难让我通通吃掉
总有一天我会得到力量

无敌铁金刚无敌铁金刚
把坏人通通打到一旁
无敌铁金刚无敌铁金刚
射出了雷射光我就不会害怕
因为你就是那无敌铁金刚

无敌铁金刚无敌铁金刚
把坏人通通打到一旁
无敌铁金刚无敌铁金刚
射出了雷射光我就不会害怕
因为你就是那因为你就是那
因为你就是那
无敌铁金刚

有缘来作伙(台) - 阿牛

汝是天顶的一蕊花无小心插伫阮头顶
无惊蝴蝇四散飞也无惊别人来看衰
我是路边牛屎一堆人人拢怨妒我趁到宝贝
有汝陪伫我身边世界刷变得真趣味

汝爱金银珠宝没问题 汝爱大车大厝我去买
我的底衫低裤有汝共俺洗
我若找不着路有汝来点火

有缘才会来做伙 汝唊尼好的查某卜去叨找
查甫侬是铁锤查某是铁钉
咱俩人来起一间爱的房间
爱人哪有缘来做伙
我唊尼好的查甫嘛无缘找
人啊真正缘投只是生得矮
人讲脚底在在免惊风吹

至霖情歌(粤) - 阿牛

我为你着迷

为你着袜唔着鞋
陪你行街睇戏

俾埋电话费
爱你我在所不计

你煮菜我洗米

食晒 d碗碟

我自己洗
我唔再去睇第二d女仔

你都唔好去沟仔

我会一生一世

俾好多家用你洗
但是你要同我

你要为我生好多好多个仔
你系我一生一世

至爱的皇帝
你话唔制唔制啊

我至钟意睇你甘样

诈诈谛

哎呀皇帝点解唔制
我地两个一起
诈诈谛

More than words - many people sing before  -.-

Saying I love you
Is not the words I want to hear from you
It’s not that I want you
Not to say, but if you only knew
How easy it would be to show me how you feel
More than words is all you have to do to make it real
Then you wouldn’t have to say that you love me
Cos I’d already know
What would you do if my heart was torn in two
More than words to show you feel
That your love for me is real
What would you say if I took those words away
Then you couldn’t make things new
Just by saying I love you
More than words
Now I’ve tried to talk to you and make you understand
All you have to do is close your eyes
And just reach out your hands and touch me
Hold me close don’t ever let me go
More than words is all I ever needed you to show
Then you wouldn’t have to say that you love me
Cos I’d already know
What would you do if my heart was torn in two
More than words to show you feel
That your love for me is real
What would you say if I took those words away
Then you couldn’t make things new
Just by saying I love you
More than words

妈妈的爱有多少斤 - 阿牛

两斤蒜头两块一
马铃薯卖块七
再给我辣椒和一只鸡
我的孩子很爱吃咖哩
一二三四五六七
茶醋油盐米
炒一碟菜油要放几滴
煮一顿饭要用多少心
你煮过的饭有多少斤
谁能数得清
答案悄悄的藏在米缸里
妈妈的爱有多少斤
谁能数得清
答案写在她脸上的皱纹里

You left me hanging from a thread
We once were from together
I lick my wounds but I can
Never see them getting better
Something’s gotta change
Things cannot stay the same

Her hair was pressed against her face
Her eyes were ran with anger
Enraged by things unsaid
And empty beds and bad behavior
Something’s gotta change
It must be rearranged, oh

I’m sorry, I did not mean
To hurt my little girl
It’s beyond me, I cannot carry
The weight of a heavy world
So goodnight, goodnight, goodnight, …(+5)
Goodnight, hope that things work out all right
Whoa, oh

The room was silent as we
All tried so hard to remember
The way it feels to be alive
The day that he first met her
Something’s gotta change
Things cannot stay the same

You make me think of someone wonderful
But I can’t place her
I wake up every morning
Wishing one more time to face her
Something’s gotta change
It must be rearranged, oh

I’m sorry, I did not mean
To hurt my little girl
It’s beyond me, I cannot carry
The weight of a heavy world
So goodnight, goodnight, goodnight, …
Goodnight, hope that things work out all right

So much to love
So much to learn
But I won’t be there to teach you, oh
I know I can be closed
But I’ll try my best to reach you

I’m so sorry,
I did not mean to hurt my little girl
It’s beyond me, I cannot carry
The weight of a heavy world
So goodnight, goodnight, goodnight, goodnight
Goodnight, goodnight, goodnight, goodnight
Goodnight, goodnight, goodnight, goodnight
Goodnight, hope that things work out all right..
Whoa, oh…
Yeah…

lyrics of Maroon 5… Goodnight Goodnight

It’s a nice song, knew bout it some time ago ady…just that not all so true in the lyrics, maybe like just 85%…kakaka…so didn’t post it…hope u guys enjoy the song lo~

Hinder – Without You

I just wanna be alone tonight
I just wanna take a little breather
Cause lately all we do is fight
And every time it cuts me deeper

Cause something’s changed
You’ve been acting so strange
And its taking its toll on me
Its safe to say that I’m ready to let you leave

Without you, I live it up a little more everyday
Without you, I’m seein myself so differently
I didn’t wanna believe it then
But it all worked out in the end
When I watched you walk away
Well I never thought id say
I’m fine
Without you

Called you up cause’ it’s been long enough
And you said that you were so much better
We have done a lot of growing up
We were never meant to be together

Cause something changed, you were acting so strange
And it’s taken its toll on me
It’s safe to say that I’m ready to let you leave

Without you, I live it up a little more everyday
Without you, I’m seein myself so differently
I didn’t wanna believe it then
But it all worked out in the end
When I watched you walk away
Well I never thought id say
I’m fine
Without you

Cause something changed, you were acting so strange
And it’s taken its toll on me
It’s safe to say that I’m ready to let you leave

Without you, I live it up a little more everyday
Without you, I’m seein myself so differently
I didn’t wanna believe it then
But it all worked out in the end
When I watched you walk away
Well I never thought id say
I’m fine,
Without you
Without you
Without you
Without you
I just wanna be alone tonight,
I just wanna take a little breather.

… … … why? what happened? … … … … … … … … … … … …

seriously…i dono what to say… Intro you guys to these songs…

Come home - One Republic

Hello world

Hope you’re listening
Forgive me if I’m young
For speaking out of turn
There’s someone I’ve been missing
I think that they could be
The better half of me
They’re in their own place trying to make it right
But I’m tired of justifying
So i say you’ll..
Come home
Come home
Cause I’ve been waiting for you
For so long
For so long
And right now there’s a war between the vanities
But all i see is you and me
The fight for you is all I’ve ever known
So come home
Oooh
I get lost in the beauty

of everything i see
The world ain’t as half as bad
As they paint it to be
If all the sons
If all the daughters
Stopped to take it in
Well hopefully the hate subsides and the love can begin
It might start now..Yeahh
Well maybe I’m just dreaming out loud
Until then
Come home
Come home
Cause I’ve been waiting for you
For so long
For so long
And right now there’s a war between the vanities
But all i see is you and me
The fight for you is all I’ve ever known
Ever known
So come home
Oooh

Everything i can’t be
Is everything you should be
And that’s why i need you here
Everything i can’t be
Is everything you should be
And that’s why i need you here
So hear this now
Come home
Come home
Cause I’ve been waiting for you
For so long
For so long
And right now there’s a war between the vanities
But all i see is you and me
The fight for you is all I’ve ever known
Ever known
So come home
Come home

Home - Michael Buble

Another summer day
has come and gone away
In Paris or Rome…
but I wanna go home
…uhm Home
may be surrounded by
a million people I
still feel all alone
just wanna go home
I miss you, you know

And I’ve been keeping all the letters
that I wrote to you,
Each one a line or two
I’m fine baby, how are you?
I would send them but I know that it’s just not enough
My words were cold and flat
And you deserve more than that

Another aeroplane, another sunny place,
I’m lucky I know
but I wanna go home
I got to go home
Let me go home

I’m just too far from where you are
I wanna come home

And I feel just like I’m living
someone else’s life
It’s like I just stepped outside
when everything was going right
And I know just why you could not come along with me
This was not your dream
but you always believed in me…

Another winter day
Has come and gone away
in either Paris or Rome
and I wanna go home
Let me go home

And I’m surrounded by
A million people I
still feel alone
Let me go home
I miss you , you know

Let me go home
I’ve had my run
baby I’m done
I gotta go home

Let me go home
it’ll all be alright
I’ll be home tonight
I’m coming back home”

Home - Chris Daughtry

I’m staring out into the night,
Trying to hide the pain.
I’m going to the place where love
And feeling good don’t ever cost a thing.
And the pain you feel’s a different kind of pain.

Well I’m going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I’m not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don’t regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old,
So I’m going home.
Well I’m going home.

The miles are getting longer, it seems,
The closer I get to you.
I’ve not always been the best man or friend for you.
But your love, it makes true.
And I don’t know why.
You always seem to give me another try.

So I’m going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I’m not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don’t regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old,
So I’m going home.
I’m going home.

Be careful what you wish for,
‘Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all,
And then some you don’t want.
Be careful what you wish for,
‘Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all, yeah.

Oh, well I’m going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I’m not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don’t regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old.
I said these places and these faces are getting old,
So I’m going home.
I’m going home.

… … …just wondering positively about the someone who could make me feel like home again… 

A believer of reality or in own faith?

What do you believe in life? I don’t mean all those obvious surface stuff.. i mean something you believe deep down in u..some thing you hold on to in hard times..something u base ur life decisions and direction on to..

hmm..a simple example for easier understanding..In general– if you’re a believer of “good”, you won’t make decisions that will harm others (if it was in ur power to do so, or at least not purposely). On the other hand, if you don’t believe in good ( doesn’t necesarily means u believe in “evil”), then you might focus more own how to benefit/etc when solving somekind of conflict or problem.

There are things that we choose to believe and there are things that we are trained/influenced/taught/shaped to believe in. Depending largely on what continent in the world you were born and what colour of skin u have and etc. In many cases, education of our caretakers (ie. Parent) and also ourselves.

That leads to my 1st curiosity of the amount of people that actually consciously choose their believe(s)? Some friends i know just goes along with what people “usually” do. hmm, forgot about the term used in psychology,there is a theory on this kind of behaviour..where people have the believe that what the majority is doing is the correct/safest/best way of doing things. hmm..I’m not judging, but that is,e….half true~ as what we learn in history of mankind, that there are lots of time where the minorities were the ones with the correct believe. But if often seems that lots of malaysian has that kind of to do what others do mindset.

Well, I suppose i should not be saying lots of Malaysian as I never read about this particular study. XP

Anyway, back to the main thing, believes. Have you have any believes that you hold so tight on being proven by your experience in life,  that it is incorrect.. For instance, people use to believe so strongly that earth is square, when they were proven wrong, how did it effect them??Which leads me to where i’m really going to…how will a shattered believe effect some one (or izit affect? lol XD)…well, it’s common sense..It depends on what you believe in and how does that thing works around your life.

Going in a little deeper.. For instance, you believe strongly in science, or at least logic thinking and proves…and you also believe in Karma…and lets just say your believe in Karma leads to you being a good person (doing good deeds and all). Assume that suddenly some lunatic empirical study proves that there is no karma, just how people deal with their deeds makes the difference (or whatever theory he can come out with). Would you change ur behaviour and be more “self-concerned”? What about hell and heavan?? What if there is really nothing after life?? Won’t you think lots of people will want to get more in life rather than just pleasing other ppl’s thoughts?

If you believe that you would not change and still continue be the “good” guy, can you be sure that you are not doing it just because everyone is doing it, and NOT because YOU BELIEVE in it? then what makes u sure that you won;t change when others changed? Anyways , if that is the case, then why have that believe in the first place?? So have something to hold on to? as a guide line? or is it because we were brought up to believe in those behaviours?

Which sometimes leads to the believe of doing something to serve own purpose to be “selfish”. Don’t think that’s true? try looking at it this way… A person who just likes to use lots and lots of plastic bags…bad for environment, good for himself cos he does not want to spend his effort in being environmental friendly…he is ignorant??selfish??a jerk??idiot maybe??

Even the believe of what’s right and wrong would change…Well, i don’t mean that everyone would suddenly kill another person to get their money, but maybe more will be more straight forward in achieving what they wanted (maybe will show more in work life kua) and public perception of backstabbing might just change to just a kind of strategy in obtaining result. (btw, i know there are people with this kind of thinking and still, for me, It’s not right or wrong, it’s just what they believe in)

Anyway, the focus is on the effect of shattered believes/logics/rasionalisations..

Well, I believe that we evolve and move forward throught our experience and daily encounters..Althought i do try not to change only after bad experiences, learning throught other’s mistakes and by trying to think a head is so much lesser painful experience although it’s not 1st hand encounter. That said, I have my fair shair of bad experiences non the less~ hahaha

It’s getting late, so that’s it for now… untill next time, bye~

(btw: type this since last night before sleep around till around 1.30am but only manage to publish it this evening thanks to insufficient rest & friendster blog extreemly long loading time)

hmm,sieness, waiting at home for some friends to finish shopping and bathing and dono what else… i was chatting with parent and uncle while checking mails and other stuff online..suddenly, they started saying some things bout me to be civil servant, OMG!!! I don’t want to rot inside there!!! I’m too active, too hungry for challenge, too..watever to go work in there~ but…they got 25 annual leave per year…lol…damn attrative…hahahaha….

…after 15 mins of defensive position…

I’m gona faint…dad start talking bout MBA…says now is still a good time for me to get my masters…really never crossed my mind…NEVER!! NOT EVER!!! then now he is trying to “psycho” me into it, damn he is a great sales man, (in fact one of the best sales person in the country during those days) makes me start thinking bout it…

OI!! WAKE UP!! WAKE UP!! Going throught another suffering studying period?! you’ve got to be kidding me~!!!  but then…it does sound so much nicer with a masters degree…hahhaha…damn, i’m greedy…hmm, got to make another reality check..   XD

Just a reminder for those woman out there that it is all your fault~

MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA……..

男孩本不想变坏 （这篇章作者是谁不
晓得，
文章简短，但意味深长。致敬。）
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十岁以前，他什么都不懂，就不说了。

十三、四岁的时候，开始对女孩有好感，但是
那时候他离女孩远远的，并且以讨厌女孩自
居，生怕被同伴嘲笑。

十五岁的时候，听到大人们说某某男人好花，
把女朋友甩了，女孩自杀了。他觉得这人真狠
毒，自己将来一定要做个痴情的男人，一定要
一生只爱一个人。

十六岁的时候，他喜欢上了一个女孩，但是他
不敢和她说。仍然和往常一样，脏兮兮的在灰
土飞扬的操场上踢球。只在女孩走出校门的时
候，躲在二层的窗户上看她的背影，他觉得她
一定是个天使。

十七岁的时候，有个女孩喜欢上了他，但是他
离她很远，他心里面只有自己那个女孩，他觉
得看别的女孩都是对她的不忠。

十八岁的时候，看了一个MTV，感动得想哭，
他想，如果自己的女孩失去了双眼，他一定会
像男主角会毫不犹豫的把自己的眼睛给她，让
她能看到光明。

十九岁的时候，高考了。终于和自己暗恋的女
孩分别，坐火车去学校的时候，感觉自己离她
越来越远，心像被掏空了一样。还在想自己一
定不会忘记她，等到自己成功以后一定要去找
她。

二十岁的时候，听到有人讲黄色笑话，觉得这
人真可耻。

二十一岁的时候，她的回信中告诉他，自己有
了男朋友。偷偷的哭了一个晚上。

二十二岁的时候，他向一个女孩表白，女孩
说“你是个好人，可是我还小。”他想，我的确
是个好人，他说“没关系，我可以等你。”心
想，我不会像那些花心的人一样，三年五年我
也能等。

二十三岁的时候，说自己还小的女孩和一个帅
哥恋爱了。他很纳闷，长大原来可以这样快。

二十四岁的时候，他又向一个女孩表白，女孩
说“你是个好人，可是我并不适合你。” 他纳闷
很久，我是好人你怎么还不适合我呢？

二十五岁的时候，他又追求一个女孩，女孩接
受了他。他开始很幸福的为未来拼搏，他想，
一时的开心只是暂时的，只有努力拼搏，他和
她才能有快乐的未来，但是，半年以后，女孩
和他分手了。只是因为另外一个男孩会说让她
开心的话。女孩说“你是个好人，是我对不起
你。”他似乎明白了问题所在，他是个好人。

二十六岁的时候，他开始堕落，交网友。打扮
得时尚而酷，而且渐渐的学习着讨好女孩的
话。不久，他有了个女朋友，虽然他对她也很
好，可是，他心里知道，自己并不爱她。

二十七岁的时候，他和女孩分手了。他对女孩
说“你是个好女孩，是我对不起你。”

二十八岁的时候，他尝试了一夜情，发现别人
能做的，自己也一样。

二十九岁的时候，他学会了讲黄色笑话，并且
以看旁边的女孩子脸红为乐趣。

三十岁的时候，他忽然发现自己变得很有能力
追求到女孩，但是却没有了爱的能力。其实每
个男孩，本来都是想做一个感情专一的好男人
的。

其实每个男孩，本来看女孩子都是看脸而不是
胸部的。
其实每个男孩，本来都是不会讲黄色笑话的。

其实每个男孩，本来都是渴望爱一个人直到永
远的。

只是，没有任何女孩爱这样的男孩，她们觉得
这样的男孩太幼稚，太古板，没有情趣。

于是男孩开始改变，变成女孩喜欢的那种
嘴角挂着坏坏。开始学会说甜言蜜语而不是心
里想说的话。
开始学会假装关心，学会给女孩送小饰物讨好
她
学会如何追求，如何把握爱情。
或者看破红尘，游戏情场，成为女人恨恨的那
种男人

他们可以很容易俘获女孩子的心，
但是他们也会在黑的夜里叼着烟流泪。
心里有爱的时候，没有女孩
有了女孩，却永远没有了爱的感觉

* “在听到女人抱怨世上没有一个好男人时候
他们不会再去努力做个好男人，只是微笑着擦
肩而过。。。。”

女人们， 相信吧！

While i was browsing through forward mails that I saved in my yahoo today, I saw something that can be shared to all, part of the forwarded-mail goes like this…

★ 給在戀愛中及想戀愛的男女 ★

女生的心很脆弱~~~

常因為你的小體貼而感動，如果你一直對我好 我可能就會喜歡你

女生的感情很豐富~~~

喜歡你的我，會毫不保留的付出，天真的認為有天你就會懂

女生的心很容易受傷~~~

所以我不輕易說出口~~~假如期望落空了，傷心難過很不好受

女生的心很倔強 ~~~

總希望你先說，如果你也猶豫不決…

或許我們就這樣錯過…再來後悔為何當初不說……

男生的心很脆弱~~~

常常因為妳的小動作而心碎，如果妳一直若即若離，我怎麼敢喜歡妳

男生的心思很細密~~~

喜歡妳的我，會不計一切的付出，單純的以為你會懂得珍惜

男生的愛很不容易說出口~~~

因為一旦說出口，或許再也沒有或許了，彼此悲傷見面真的很不好受

男生的心很懦弱~~~

總怕傷心而緊閉雙唇，或許一打開雙唇盡吐心語後

就會後悔當初為何不乖乖沉靜在那片刻的幸福中…..

Then they show this story…

把握

一頓歷時89分鐘,價值274元的晚餐。一對男女戀人步出餐廳。

男的吃這頓飯吃得好辛苦,因他85分鐘都用了來想著公司的那份計劃書該怎樣做,
幸好女的一點也不發覺他心不在焉。

女的對男的說:「現在不算太晚,你不用送我了,我自己回家吧。」
明天就要交計劃書的男友,”立刻”答:
「好呀!那你小心點了,回家致電給我 吧。再見。」

男的飛快回家,去埋首他的工作,他不停的做直致電話響起。
他看看鐘原來已經半夜三 時許,是誰這麼夜來電’
他接過電話, 原來是他的未來外母:
「我女兒現在還沒回家,你不 是和她去了吃飯嗎’她怎樣了,我好怕……」
男的才記起女的說回到家後會致電他報 平安,
但現在已經夜半二、三時她為什麼還不回家。
男的心亂如麻,最後還是報警求助 。

去到警局,警員問他: [ 她失蹤時的衣著是’」
男的:「這…她……想不起來…」
警員:「不打緊,你先放鬆一下,那衣服的顏色總會記得吧’藍色’ 紅色’」
男的:「我…我只想著份計劃書,吃飯也低下頭…我不曾看過她的…」
警員:「她的髮型呢’長髮’短髮’」
男的:「我跟她一起很多年了…我所以…怎麼她的東西我一點也想不起…」
警員:「你說她是你女友,你們最近很少見面嗎’怎會連髮型也不知道,那她有帶
首飾 , 手袋嗎’」 男的也是無言以對。

離開警局,男的覺得很驚訝,驚訝他對女友的”不上心”。
多年來他已把愛情的感覺當成 一種 習慣,就連對他的女友也”習以為常”,
已經不把她放在心上了。
已過了三天,女的還是音訊全無,這三天男的除了擔心女友的安危,
就是不停的想:「她的髮型、她的衣著,我怎會不知道的!我一定要記起來!」

這夜,男的經過一條幽黑、灰暗的長街,竟看見女的就站在長街的盡頭。
男的高興得跑向她,想緊緊的擁抱她。
但走到女友的面前他就改變了主意,他雙手按著女友的肩膊,說:
「等一下,先不要動。讓我看清楚你,你的頭髮、你的衣著,我要好好的記著。
回想起那晚,其實是你發現我還有工作在身,想我早點回家工作而叫我不用送你的。
一直以來只有你還關心我的感受,而我卻不理會你。
但不要緊,我已知道應怎樣去愛你、珍惜你。
相信 我,你的一切一切今後都會常在我心中的。」

女的:「你終於都懂得理會我的感受,懂得珍惜我了…可惜已經太遲……」
男的忽然醒過來,原來剛才的是一場夢。
夢醒後男的努力去想,夢中女友的衣著、髮型,但還是記不起來…..

隔天,男的終於再見到他的女友,就是在警員帶他到殮房認屍的時候……
望著躺在停屍間的女友,男的哭著說:
「我終於知道你的髮型,衣著,我現在才 真正的看真你。我會記著的,永遠都會記著的…
我剛想到要珍惜你…你醒醒呀…不要就這樣離開我好嗎……」

男的剛學會珍惜, 卻已後悔莫及。現在他除了哭泣,就什麼都做不了……

也許你常發現我一直凝望著你!你問我看什麼呢？
我笑笑的回答….沒什麼 ,只是想將你的一切記在心裏 ,在見不到你時細細回味……….

Finish reading this part, I don’t understand…Is remembering those little things so important? Is there no bigger picture in relationship?
To me, for 2 ppl to be together, all of these is not so big of a deal…Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying we should just ignore, but isn’t it more important to spend time together, and understand the things each other is going through is more important when being with someone?
The girl feel left out when bf is busy working…he is working hard, mayb it’s because he wants to fight for a better future..our attention is not unlimited, we can only focus in few things in certain time… Won’t the story be more meaningful, if the girl told his bf that she understand why he didn’t remember instead of blaming him…
hmm…feel so weird everytime i see all these stories…i feel that their focus is too “fairy tale” like… blame the movies, the series, and the bed time stories…They lead to us imagining life in fairy tales…wanting our halfs to be like this and that… it might seem cheeky, but aren’t that thing the whoever said once is so true bout relationship “Ask not what your ‘partner’ can do for you, Ask what you can do for your ‘partner’”

If we’re more concern on how we can contribute to the relationship rather than what the other half should give in…aren’t that even better than fairy tale stories??